Posts Tagged ‘Smart women’

Smart Women Give Their Clients an Experience

Thursday, January 7th, 2010

Last week, my husband Greg and I went mobile phone shopping. I had one of those flip phones that allows you to make phone calls and that’s about it. I couldn’t email anyone or look up anything on the web. I really needed a better way to stay connected!

I’ve been with the same mobile phone company for 9 years. Hard to believe, right? I’m slow to commit but once I do, loyal to the end! So the first place I went was to my current carrier’s store to see what they had to offer. When we entered the store, there were a quite a few people waiting and so we got in line and waited our turn. Not once did anyone say, “Thanks for waiting, I’ll be with you in a moment” or “Sorry for the delay, someone will be right with you.” Nothing. No eye contact. We felt invisible. I had quite a few questions about the new phones and was anxious to get my questions answered. When it was my turn (about 20 minutes later) something happened that was shocking. The person behind the desk looked straight at us and then just turned and walked away! I was stunned and frustrated at this point.

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Smart Women Share Their Pearls….

Thursday, December 31st, 2009

One of the birthday “traditions” in our family is when a member gets to a certain age, they share one “pearl of wisdom” for each decade they have lived.

Today is my 50th birthday! The five decades behind me were all wonderful and as I reflect on each one of them, I can clearly see how each decade blended into the next to bring me to where I am today. I’m very excited about the next 50 years with lots of ideas and plans for living a meaningful and full life. In keeping with my family “tradition,” I’m going to share with you my five “pearls of wisdom” that have been instrumental in my life so far. This is not an easy exercise! Choosing five was a real challenge. We all have beliefs that we carry inside of us. They come from our families, mentors, and life experiences that we have along the way. However, I’m clear now that the five “pearls of wisdom” that you read below are the ones that have shaped my life in the most profound way:

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What Smart Women Learn in the Recovery Room

Thursday, December 17th, 2009

A few weeks ago, I had surgery to remove one of my healthy kidneys in order to donate that kidney to my husband Greg, 12-17-09Article whose kidney was failing, so that he would enjoy a more vital, healthy life. On December 1, we both were admitted to UCLA Medical Center. Everything went well regarding the surgery, however, when I woke up in the recovery room later that day and became aware of my surroundings, I felt restrained and an overall feeling of loss of control. As the hours went by (and the pain meds began to wear off!) I realized there were 4 “obstacles” that I needed to overcome in my journey to again feel in control of my life. The 4 “obstacles” were: forced oxygen, a catheter, an IV in my arm, and being strong enough to stand up and walk without assistance. This got me thinking about how Smart Women need to overcome the “obstacles” in their lives in order for them to be in control of their destiny.

As women, we can sometimes carry a heavy load of responsibility. We are nurturers by nature. We tend to say “Yes” more than “No.” Over time, some of the roles and responsibilities you take on no longer serve you well and can become “obstacles”. There have been times in my life that I’ve felt as if I was being held captive to some of the roles and responsibilities in my life. What are possible “obstacles” right now in your life?

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Smart Women Trim the Layers of Their Lives

Thursday, November 19th, 2009

Yesterday, we had tree-trimmers here at our house to clean up the trees that were overgrown and also to make room for new growth in the future. 11-19-09Article[1] girl smiling by treeWe live in a house that is very light and bright, however I was surprised this morning when I discovered how much more light and clarity of vision we have now that we’ve peeled back the layers of debris and overgrowth. Today, I have views of nature and blue sky that were not visible to me yesterday. This got me thinking about how Smart Women know the importance of trimming back the layers of their lives so that they can keep their vision clear and focused on what’s most important.

In my work with women, one of the most essential exercises that we do together is peel back the layers of their lives and take a look at what’s working and what’s not working. It’s important to take a look at each layer and if necessary trim the excess so you can live each day doing what’s most important to you in your life. The challenge for most of us is in the “letting go” of what no longer serves us. Sometimes there’s so much debris in our lives that we are unable to clearly see how even just a slight trim in one area could create a dramatic positive impact.

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Viva Las Vegas!

Friday, November 13th, 2009

Hey there Smart Women– how are you? I’m in Las Vegas 11-05-09Note[1]for a few days attending the Ali Brown Shine event. It’s being held at the luxurious Venetian/Palazzo Resort and Casino and I’m loving this place! The reason I invest in these learning events is to keep up to date on the best, most effective, simple to use business and marketing strategies for myself and Smart Women. Remember, what happens in Vegas……except for all of the secrets I learn for Smart Women!

Tuesday, I spent most of my day with some very Smart Women who are ready to take their lives and businesses to the next level. I love watching women embrace the idea of creating a life that includes what they really want and deserve.

hallB[1]Halloween was a lot of fun. Jenna collected 96 pieces of candy and Jack had a whopping 135! There were a lot of trades going on Sunday morning. Jack says, “I’ll trade you 2 Smarties, 1 Twix, 2 Jolly Ranchers and a 3 Musketeers for 1 bag of M&M’s.” Jenna’s response? “I’m not sure that’s a fair trade.”

There are only 56 days days left in 2009. Do you know where your ideal life is? Check out my new system, “Creating the Spark – 6 Steps to Igniting the Passion for a Life & Business That You Will Love”.

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