Posts Tagged ‘Growth’

Smart Women Trim the Layers of Their Lives

Thursday, November 19th, 2009

Yesterday, we had tree-trimmers here at our house to clean up the trees that were overgrown and also to make room for new growth in the future. 11-19-09Article[1] girl smiling by treeWe live in a house that is very light and bright, however I was surprised this morning when I discovered how much more light and clarity of vision we have now that we’ve peeled back the layers of debris and overgrowth. Today, I have views of nature and blue sky that were not visible to me yesterday. This got me thinking about how Smart Women know the importance of trimming back the layers of their lives so that they can keep their vision clear and focused on what’s most important.

In my work with women, one of the most essential exercises that we do together is peel back the layers of their lives and take a look at what’s working and what’s not working. It’s important to take a look at each layer and if necessary trim the excess so you can live each day doing what’s most important to you in your life. The challenge for most of us is in the “letting go” of what no longer serves us. Sometimes there’s so much debris in our lives that we are unable to clearly see how even just a slight trim in one area could create a dramatic positive impact.

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Smart Women Are Like Christopher Columbus

Thursday, November 13th, 2008

“Mom, when we get home I need to show you something really cool!” exclaimed my 8-year-old son Jack when I picked him up from school the other day.  When we got home, he opened his backpack, pulled out his Social Studies book, opened it up to the last few pages and said—“Look, isn’t this cool?”  Jack had discovered the “index” section of books.  Very animated, he explained how you could look up any word in the index and find out exactly what page it was on in the book.  His eyes were as big as beach balls. His excitement was off the charts as he was full of delight over this new discovery.  His excitement and enthusiasm got me thinking about how Smart Women are life-long learners.

Discovery of a new concept, idea, or perspective is powerful and also serves as a confidence builder.  Take a moment and reflect on the last time you learned something new.  Were you excited?  Did you feel a certain spring in your step that day?  As children, we begin with elementary school, continue our journey through high school, college, and then sometimes on to a specialized field of study.  And then what?  At that point, we may believe that we are finished with learning.  You get that feeling of “I’ve arrived!”  But have you?
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